A little bit about myself, Graeme Crosskill

I have been a Certified Facilitator with Access Consciousness since 2014. 
Over the past year, I have found myself on a truly profound journey—a transformative process that has touched every aspect of my life and living. And let me tell you, it hasn’t been a gentle stroll through a meadow. 



Diving into this space required a level of vulnerability and honesty I genuinely didn’t think I had. I mean, who really wants to look at all the ‘ugly stuff’, right? And yet, somehow, with the tools of Access Consciousness and the incredible support and care I found along the way, I was led further and deeper than I could have ever imagined.


I’m excited and genuinely humbled to say that I am finally starting to live and come alive. Through the privilege of working closely with Dr. Dain Heer (a pioneer in being a true Gentleman) —who, never gave up on me even when I was ready to throw in the towel—I somehow managed to keep going no matter how hard it got or how deep I had to look. And trust me, there were moments when I thought, “Seriously? There’s more?” But in those moments of pushing through, I discovered entirely new possibilities for myself. I began unravelling layers I didn’t even know existed and encountered a sense of clarity, peace and presence that completely changed my direction and experience of living.


The depth of this change goes far beyond the cognitive or intellectual—it’s been a full-body, full-being awakening to what else is actually possible. I’m discovering what it is to live from what I am truly capable of, and reconnecting with a caring for myself and the world that had been lost for far too long. It’s like finding a part of yourself you forgot existed, except it’s been there all along, just waiting for you to say hello.


I am inspired to share the tools of Access Consciousness with as many people as I can. And I am particularly delighted and honoured to bring more awareness to the work around and for men—men who know there’s something greater available for themselves, their families, and the world around them, but maybe don’t know where to start or how to ask for it. 



It is my pleasure to see these life-changing tools in the hands of those ready to explore what else can be created, not just for themselves, but to make the world a genuinely better place because they choose to show up as all of who they truly are.

Because when you choose you, everything changes. And honestly? That’s the kind of world I desire to live in.







Classes I adore and facilitate:

Telecalls & Online Courses 

Access Bars

Access Body Processes 

Foundation Class



Under TheGentle-Man.com umbrella: 

Return of the Gentleman Book Clubs and Intros

and more to come


You are welcome to connect with me via 
Whatsapp +27 65 147 5693
Email ease@graemecrosskil.com
Instagram @graeme.crosskill
Website academy.graemecrosskill.com | thegentle-man.com